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Trust! But…

… always count your change!

We humans love to be told what to believe.
Even if we are more of a rebellious type (my hand is raised!),
we like to join a good read.

Culture is built on shared believes about – well, just about everything.
That’s the core of culture.
A shared idea about life.

 

We listen to stories and we memorize them well.
We learn best when we hear a narrative.

In our history we believed what the old epic songs told us.
We believed what the bards were delivering.
We put faith in what we were told by authorities, by books, by science, by scholars.

We believed what we learned at school.
What was said on the television.
We believed what the newspapers told us,
what was featured in magazines.

 

Now humans believe what the AI tells them.

And there is absolutely no problem.
Until that day when what we believe contradicts reality.

When there is a collision between
– what we believe and
– what is real,
reality always wins.
The sky is blue not green, no matter how much you believe in a green sky.

Reality is always right.
No matter what the AI makes us believe.

 

In history, people who believed their own observations have been called wise men.
There is a reason for that.

Trust your common sense.
It’s not very common but more intelligent than you might think.

Have a great summer,
much love,
Anselma

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Encouragement please!

The devil made a garage sale. He put a desk in front of his house and placed all his nice tools there. Envy, malice, dispair, hatred and jealousy were all on sale, one by one nicely lined up. But apart from those off to the side he had his favorite tool. It looked very used and was priced above all the others. It was very, very effective and it worked better than any of the other tools. It was labelled with the sign “discouragement”.

Why would this one be so useful?
Well, no one would recognise this as a devilish tool – and it would open doors to all the other gadgets. It’s well suited to break in where doors would not open for the devil.

 

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You Are Not Lazy

The other day I was teaching piano and a student’s mother was not pleased with the outcome. She complained that her child was not practicing enough. Her judgement was: the child is lazy. It needs more coercion. And well, I am just not the person who would coerce anybody. It’s not productive! And certainly not the best for the child.

There are many reasons why someone does not perform well.
And in my observation 10 of 10 cases have something deeper going on.
What on the surface may look like laziness is actually something else.

 

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What We Don’t See

There are two things that we can not see easily. But we can, when we get attentive enough and know a little bit more about human nature.

 

The Frog View

A frog can not see a fly that sits still. It’s invisible to the frog. But when the fly moves, no problem! The frog can see it, he can grab it and munch it for lunch.
Well, even though you and me, we might not exactly look like frogs, we are a lot like this little amphibian.

That’s the whole catch of news. “Everything is changing! Something is different now!” That’s basically the message of every new broadcasting. It tells you about some moves.

The same applies to social media or the internet itself.
The message always is something like this: Something is new, something is moving.

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The Donkey Story

An old man and a boy were traveling to town with a donkey. At first, the old man was riding the donkey and the boy was walking. When they stopped by a little tavern, the innkeeper critizised the old man: “How can you let the boy walk for so long? That’s inhumane!”

So after their stop they changed and the old man was walking while the boy was riding the donkey. After a few miles a little caravan passed by. Their leader stopped them in their tracks and told the old man: “Hej Lord, you spoil the boy! When he is comfortably riding the donkey he does not learn how to overcome hardships in his life. Better let him walk instead!”

 

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What Not To Forget Today

– Making mistakes is normal.

– You are not as important as you think.

– Ignore the failures of others, do it right yourself.

– Center your answers around solutions, not problems.

– Don’t chase convenience, do the difficult work readily.

– Leave behind what does not work.

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Successful New Year

A colleague helping out in our company wrote, she wishes much success for all the upcoming new creative projects in 2026 but she does not like the word success, she means joy, recognition and a positive resonance with others.

How nice is it when other wish us a successful New Year! I love that! At the same time I was astonished she would trace back and shy away from the word success.

 

 

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About Favors

The European basic idea that all state systems are based on is rooted in giving support. I was never aware of this fact – until the day my orchestra made a concert tour to India. As artists, we resided in luxurious hotels, with huge bedrooms and bathrooms all in marble. I had never been to more elegant und exquisite accommodations than in India. We were driving around in air-conditioned busses and had all the conveniences a person could think of.

 

 

 

 

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Interview with Nikolaus Maler

Nikolaus Maler is principal bassoonist at the Rheinische Philharmonie Koblenz and holds a position as professor for bassoon at the Musikhochschule Nürnberg, Germany. His YouTube Channel „Fagottmusik“ is reaching a large fan community. Prof. Maler is known for his exceptionally wide repertoire, including contemporary rarities. Quite a few pieces have been dedicated to him in the past and he wholeheartedly supports young musicians and engages in educating the ambitious bassoon youth.

 

 

 

 

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Monday Again

The other day I read about a guy, who gave his employees T-Shirts that say TGIM.
This is an acronym for “Thank God It’s Monday”.

We spend so much time working I personally think it’s crucial we do remember now and then that doing meaningful work means living a meaningful life.

 

 

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